How to Do Sakharpuda Ceremony – Marathi Engagement Rituals Guide

Marriage Planning

Introduction:
Sakharpuda is not just a ceremony; it’s the beautiful beginning of two families coming together in love and celebration. In Maharashtrian culture, this pre-wedding ritual marks the official engagement between the bride and groom and holds deep cultural significance. If you're planning a Sakharpuda and don't know where to begin, here's your step-by-step guide.

🪔 What is Sakharpuda?

Sakharpuda, also known as the engagement ceremony, is the first formal event where the bride and groom's families meet and exchange gifts. The name "Sakharpuda" comes from the tradition of gifting sugar (sakhar) as a symbol of sweet beginnings.

📋 Step-by-Step Guide to Organizing a Sakharpuda

1. Fixing the Date (Muhurat)

Consult with a family priest or astrologer to find an auspicious day.
Popular days include weekends and festivals, especially during wedding seasons like Margashirsha or Poush months.

2. Venue Selection

Choose a small hall, temple premises, or your home based on the number of guests.
Keep the decoration simple and elegant – marigold garlands and rangoli are traditional favorites.

3. Inviting Close Relatives

Sakharpuda is usually an intimate event with close family and friends.
Prepare and send out invitation cards or digital invites.

4. Dress Code and Traditional Attire

The bride typically wears a Paithani saree or Nauvari, while the groom may wear a Kurta Pajama or Sherwani.
Coordinated family outfits can enhance the event’s cultural vibe.

5. Traditional Rituals

The bride's family gives the groom a symbolic gift, usually a box of sugar, clothes, or sweets.
In return, the groom's family gifts saree, jewelry, and sometimes engagement rings to the bride.
Both families may exchange coconuts, betel leaves, and supari (auspicious items).

6. Ring Exchange (Optional)

Though not traditional, many couples now include a ring exchange ceremony during Sakharpuda.

7. Aarti & Blessings

The bride and groom are blessed by elders with akshata (uncooked rice with turmeric).
An aarti is performed to welcome them into each other's families.

8. Feast & Photography

Conclude the event with a Maharashtrian feast including puran poli, batata bhaji, koshimbir, and sweet dishes.
Hire a local photographer or keep a DIY photo corner for candid moments.

✨ Tips for a Memorable Sakharpuda

Add a personal touch with handwritten notes or family performances.
Use soft Maharashtrian music like lavani or bhavgeet in the background.
Create a small stage with the couple’s name for pictures.